i know its long but please help..
Okay, well my family used to be perfect but it just started getting bad a couple of years ago and it gets worse and worse. When my mom had her first child, she only lived to be 12 days old, and that really left a big hold in my moms life. So… she went to counceling, and that helped but shes still going to it, and its not really seeming to help anymore with our family issues. Then, She had me and she was really really really overprotective until around the age of 11 “im 14 now”, and we had a really close relationship. Then, she had my brother “who is 10 now” and hes always had problems with anger management, so i guess you could say it started going downhill there. Then she had my other brother “8 now” and hes always been the “sweet, perfect, angelic, sensitive” child. Last, she has my sister “4 now” she used to be really sweet but after all the screaming and emotional stress that has gone on, shes become really mean and hateful of everyone.
I dont know exactly where it all started. I guess it started with me and my mom/my brother and my mom getting fights which increasingly got worse “i think part of it might be becauser my mom has borderline personality disorder’ but anway at the same time my dad just started a new business, so hes not home as much, and hes trying to make money but my mom has this idea in her head that he just wants to be away from the family, thats not the case at all.
So it started getting worse and worse when it became physical. For example, my mom would hit my brother kinda lightly with a closed fist, he would hit her back, he would say he wanted to kill her in her sleep, my mom would say i hate you, and my brother would call my dad at work. My mom always ALWAYS twisted around the stories and i think in her head, she made herself believe that they were true, but after enough of these fighting scenarios with all of us, my dad started to believe the kids, which my mom HATES. My mom loves the two youngest siblings, and thinks there perfect, my little sister definately isnt, and since our relationship which was strongest grew apart, she even loves my 10 year old brother more and is always sticking up for him. Luckily, I have my dad who sticks up for me. so it is basically my mom and brother against me and my dad.
Well after all these calls of me crying to my dad, and me running away, because my mom would call me “worthless,slutty, not as good as anyone in the family” and she would say she wants to send me away, my dad started threatening divorce, which is not a good thing to bpd people. Ever since then my moms been trying so hard to not hit us, but my dad thinks shes trying to hard and being faky and hes still considering divorce as a possibility. So every time he mentions it my mom literally has a breakdown “cusses, hits people, cant breathe, runs around in circles, tries to find the keys to her car to drive away” all of that stuff.. and she is always saying how shes not gonna live without my dad which kind of puts him on the spot. My dad has so much financial stress, and family stress adn hes becoming depressed and sad, and hes never smiling anymore. The last few months have been hardest for me. Ive started cutting, I have very in depth suicidal thoughts, and i just sit in my room and listen to music, nothing in life seems fun aymore, i just want to sleep and never wake up.
My mom has her nice days too, she takes me shopping, out to lunch, and laughs but i cant forgive her for everthing shes done in the past. me and my dad try to tell her that but she just says how hateful, and grudge holding we are. I realy feel so bad, and yesterday morning she left and i dont konw where she is, and im relaly scared and worried, and she caled my dad last night but only asked to say goodnight to the other kids. She hates me so much, And i konw its because she thinks in her little twisted brain that im trying to break her and my dad up but im doing the opositte. Im going to a psychologist and i just got bloodtests for this…. http://www.theultramindsolution.com/laun… instead of having to take medication, im waiting to get my results back, but im so depressed, and lonely. adn i have to balance school on top of al lof this right now i have straight fs and im moving schools so ill have to get adjusted to that school and what should i do. im scard to call my mom and find out where she is………she could be anywhere from a friends house, to a psychiatric ward, to a hotel

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I am 13 & I’ve been having problems with my mom lately. She’s always in a bad mood, and she’s always yelling at me for something. I tried talking to her, but she is NOT the type of person who sits down and talks things out. Unlike other moms who just calmly tell their kids the problem, my mom will blow up on me, then refuse to talk to me for a few days. Her behavior has been really bad over the past year. I know she’s getting put under a lot of pressure since my dad’s drinking problem has worsened over the past few years, plus she works the midnight shift at work. My mom is always screaming and cursing at me if I don’t do something right, and sometimes she will hit me if she’s really pissed. I feel bad because my mom blames me and she says I’m the one who causes all of the family problems.
Several of my aunts and cousins have even said that she needs anger management. I understand that she’s probably under alot of stress because of my dad, but I just can’t take it anymore.

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I am applying for a job as a scheduling coordinator. I need to change some things on my resume to fit this job. Any suggestions?
OBJECTIVE
To obtain a full time position as a scheduling coordinator in which I can utilize my leadership and communication skills to benefit the company
SKILLS
Over six years of customer interaction experience
Highly organized and detail oriented
Familiar with MS Word, Excel, and additional computer programs/software
Dynamic and positive personality; comfortable taking charge and quickly adapting to change
Able to type an average of 50 WPM
Build and maintain strong working relationships with customers, peers and management
Demonstrated ability to independently learn new skills, handle stress, and solve problems
Experienced in self-managing work efforts to complete work in a timely manner while maintaining high standard of quality
Take personal responsibility for all work outcome; thrive in competitive, fast-paced environments; excellent work ethic

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does this sound like a good (okay) editorial?
For decades, the standard operating procedure in the classroom has been teach, then have students continue to teach themselves in the form of homework. Time and time again, the formula has been revised, recreated and redistributed across all grade levels.
The time our children spend doing homework has skyrocketed in recent years. Parents spend countless hours nagging their kids to complete such assignments—often without considering whether they serve any worthwhile purpose.
The truth, according to Sara Bennett and Nancy Kalish, is that there is almost no evidence that homework helps high school students achieve academic success. Yet the nightly burden is taking a serious toll on these children. It robs them of the sleep, play, and exercise time they need for proper physical, emotional, and neurological development. And it is a hidden cause of the childhood obesity epidemic.
Studies suggest that teenagers often sacrifice their sleep time when it comes to making choices about time management. The problem is, studies also show that they need a lot more sleep than they probably get.
According to a study by sleep expert Mary Carskadon, PhD, teens should receive more than nine hours of sleep every night. That’s a great thought, but is it possible? Think about it–do you ever sleep that long?
OK, maybe on the weekends. But very few teens receive sufficient sleep on school nights.
Lack of sleep makes it more difficult for students to concentrate in school, therefore lowering their academic achievements, or thinking it does so, then have their parents nagging them to do better, putting a bit more stress on them, and then having to remain sedentary for longer to complete more study, therefore not allowing time for exercise, making them more stressed, because they have no way to exert it, and because they are worried about their looks. This can create a vicious circle for the child that affects their physical and emotional well-being.
Has anyone ever told you, when you’re a kid it’s the best 17 years of your life? Your should cherish your freedom? What freedom? Freedom to do schoolwork out of school. Yes, children and adolescents should create good work habits, so instead of making them sit around all afternoon doing homework and assignments, get them to go outside and get active, and have a parent sign a form. By having something signed, it would enforce commitment, which is something a lot of people lack.
So let them cherish their childhood while they can, because that’s something they’ll never get back.

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Hey
My Dad and I live in the same house, and he suffers from massive depression, which is strange because he was never like that.
Both my dad and I grew up the same way. During teenage years and through 20’s we partied alot, we traveled, love life, and we are both very smart. We both believe in the incredible power the Brain has, and we understand how to stay away from stress and look at things in the best way possible, ect…..
but in the last year, my dad has become MORE and MORE depressed, more stressed out, almost to the point of having a breakdown
He knows better, he knwos he shouldnt be upset over little thngs, but he cant stop
My dad is a diabetic, now for 30 years, (type 1) and he is deteriorating, foot surgeries, bad eyes, the works… and now he is suffering from bad nausea everyday
He goes to a Pain Management Clinic for his pain, and he sees a Psyciatrist for his stress and depression
Tried all meds, from zoloft to xanax and everything inbetween
Now i know that his body getting worse, sickness and pain is part of the problem, but that is NOT why im asking
its not JUST his sickness, he wouldnt be THIS bad over just that. For some reason he cant do ANYTHING, my dad used to love music, video games, traveling, ect… but now, he wont even do any of it
he tries, and gives up after 5 minutes. nothing is fun to him, he can never enjoy himself, he gets close to having break-downs… i mean he can barely eat now, NEVER sleeps
and this is my basic question here
aside from the sickness…. aside from just “trying” to do stuff (because that is a stupid answer) … and besides the normal depression/stress medicine
What is there? what can you do when everything else has failed???

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I have to make the subjects and verbs agree but they all look correct to me.
(1) Statistics from recent research suggests that humor in the workplace relieves job-related stress. (2) Reduced stress in the workplace in turn reduce illness and absenteeism. (3) It can also ease friction within an employee group, which then work together more productively. (4) Weinstein Associates is a consulting firm that hold workshops designed to make business people laugh. (5) In sessions held by one consultant, each of the participants practice making others laugh. (6) “Isn’t there enough laughs within you to spread the wealth?” the consultant asks the students.(7) She quotes Casey Stengal’s rule that the best way to keep your management job is to seperate the underlings who hate you from the ones who have not decided how they feel. (8) Such selfdeprecating comments in public is uncommon among business mangers, the consultant says.

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1. According to President Calvin Coolidge, the proper relationship between government and business should
a. assume the greatest possible independence between the two.
b. stress mutual cooperation.
c. allow for government to dictate the terms of commerce, thereby promoting monopolies.
d. allow for business to influence politics, thereby promoting oligarchies.
A
2. During the early 1920s, many of America’s top business leaders embraced
a. free-market economics, which ensured the noninterference of the Supreme Court and federal government in business affairs.
b. a revival of the piecework system of production, because it kept laborers from organizing.
c. welfare capitalism, which allowed management to ease class tensions by increasing
labor satisfaction.
d. some form of socialism, as a way to alleviate intense labor union activity.
C
am i right anyone? please explain to me if i got it wrong

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The concept of ” scientific management” changed US factories by:
a – easing the stress of workers.
b – finding out how best to shovel coal for energy.
c – imprving labor relations, which motivated workers to work harder.
d – finding the most efficient, least costly way to complete any task in a factory.
Thank you!

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I’ve had a pretty difficult past few yrs. I was in 2 year relationship and I found out I was pregnant. When I was 3 months pregnant I found out that my best friend took advantage of me when I was drunk. ( I should have been more responsible). His sister e-mailed me and told me that her brother told her that my baby might be his. I told boyfriend about it and he stood by myside. Then on Christmas eve he broke up with me. Minding you I just turned 9 months. He blew me off for the rest of the time but only went with me to my prenatal visits. 3days before my son was born he started dating this girl from work. And kept lying to me about he just needed to to himself. A couple days later we tooka paternity test and found out that he was not the father. I was devistated and went into a form of depression. I was so blinded by everything that he would tell me after that with all the ” I Love You’s” & the “I dont want to be with her” and messing with my head, he continued to have a whenever-he- felt-like-it- relationship with me. Then I became pregnant by him and he had me have an abortion because he didnt want it and I couldn’t take care of another child. But by the time i went to have the procedure done, i have an ectoptic pregnancy and had to have the procedure done regardless. Then few months later I met my husband. At first we didnt look at each other in any sexual kind of way since we both just came out of pretty bad relationships. The first week we talked non-stop, about anything and everything. He fell in love with my son from the day he met him. 2 months later we got married. Everything happened so fast. From the time we got married my husbands help went down hill. We got married in September. In september he found out he had kidney stones, October Pnemonia, November atrial fibulation (which is very rare in a 24yrs old.) December, upper respiratory infection that lasted 2weeks. January his Gerd and acid reflex was really bad. April he had another upper respiratory infection and found out he has asthma. This monday he just had surgery because he had an inguinal hernia. in December he got laid off from work. And we had to move back to my parents house in April, (due to financial problems.) July he decided to go back to school for his Bachlors’ in Business Management & got his job back working part-time. I just graduated from Medical Assisting and got my diploma last months. I can’t afford daycare so I can work or have anyone in my family that can watch him until I can find a daycare i can afford. Then being a first time mom while my sons going through his teribble two’s at one, and getting spoiled by my parents. I still havent found a job yet. Then my husband is also a rapper and put his dreams aside and decided that now is the time to start. He’d leave the house at 8′oclock and wont come back until 4 in the morning. I dont know what to do. My family tells me thats not good, and i trust & love him but have second thoughts. Can anyone give me advice on how to cope with stress?

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Yikes, I have entered the hell known as graduate school….any tips on time management, APA style, or dealing with the STRESS???

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