I’m living with a violent man, he needs anger management..
Is this anger management can be cured ,is there a solution for a man who cannot control himself when he gets angry..
I’m on my way to ask for the divorce but people arround me are asking me to stress on him to go and try with a psychiatric before if it does not succeed i should go ahead for a divorce.. do u know if it’s possible to cure this??
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Absolutely it is possible to fix a violent temper. It happens all the time; i’ve seen it in my own life.
However, the person can’t be compelled to change. He has to recognize he has a problem and seek the help himself.
If he is unwilling to do this, then you should get out of your unhealthy environment.
Wow, that’s a tough situation!
My husband went to anger management for more outwardly behavior and it worked. But he still has anger problems, just not physical. He never hit me, but threw things and yelled. But now he’s on meds for his depression, which is part of the anger. And he’s in individual therapy. But it’s exhausting. And I’m not sure how long I’ll be able to stay. I’m trying to give it some time to see if it works, be you know how exhausting it gets. So if your husband isn’t willing to go to anger management, a psychologist and a psychiatrist, then you are foolish for staying. Because he’s telling you he doesn’t want to change. If he is willing to work on himself, then you at least have some hope. I’m sorry you’re going through this. I know your pain, literally.
If you said you were living with a man with a bad temper, I might tell you to stay. But you said a violent man. You never want to date a violent man, be friends with a violent man, marry one or stay with one.
I am living with my husband which has cheated on me and I am to the point of believing he will never change. I pray daily for him and I guess that maybe his time will come but I don’t want to wait…So I would say do what makes you happy. Leave him if he hurts you. Do you want your children (if you have any) thinking its ok to hurt people like that????
If he hurts you or your children get out of the house NOW!!!! He can go for anger management and if he improves you can move back. Don’t take a chance on getting hurt or hurting your children.
There is the slight chance for him to correct this behavior, but it has to be something that he really really wants other wise it will never work. If he is only going to give it a half A** try, you are going to be better off leaving and finding a healthy relationship.
He needs to want to change, not just say it, but really mean it. He should mean it enough to be willing to see the counselor and work through his anger issues. If he really wants to change, it can work – I’ve seen it work with a good friend, although it did take time and work.
If he isn’t willing to see a counselor, or denies that he has a problem, then you should take care of yourself and get out.
There is a slim chance that counseling will work.
However, if you want to go this route before divorce, you should still move out for a while. Allow him to get in some counseling and then go out on dates. Ease back into it to see if you can still make it work and if he really has changed.
However, if your heart is telling you that you need the divorce, than do it. No one knows your husband better than you.
Good Luck, my ex had the same problem! We were told by the USMC to have counseling. The counsler actually told me my husband wasnt willing to change, and all this was for nothing. 5 months later he put a gun to my head. and I left him for good. after that he was made to go to counseling by the judge. he said he had changed but I never took him back. 5 years later me and my kids are doing good and I never looked back! ohhh and havent heard from him either!
divorce, divorce, divorce.
oh, did i mention DIVORCE?
abuse is grounds for divorce. he won’t be cured, and you’ll end up dead..