My brother just pushed me off the sofa and i fell right on my back! He seems to get a lot angrier than me in everything. Like if were ever in a fight, i get mad, but i dont truly get that mad, in fact i usually feel like ending the fight after a few seconds because i have short a shorter anger spand, but he seems to get all psycho and crazy. He always hits me and jumps on me and i’m afraid he’ll seriosuly hurt me one day. Just right now, he grabbed me by the leg and i lost balance and fell right off the sofa stright on my back, its now all bruised up and it hurts. The sofa was about 1-2 feet off the ground. Will this affect my back in the long run or anything? What should i do about my brother? Can he develop any stress problems in the future from all that stress? He truly has problems and i worry about him sometimes.


I don’t know your age, but your brother needs help NOW. He needs to be in an anger management program and if he has to be forced, then so be it. Have you talked this over with a parent? They should help before it gets worse. I can’t say what is causing the anger. It might be drugs, alcohol, the home life, etc., so the root of the problem needs to be addressed by a professional. Yes he could hurt you badly one day or worse. Stress is a main trigger in how people handle their lives, so yes stress is an issue. There are ways to learn to deal with stress that do not hurt others.
I can’t say if you will have back problems down the road but I wouldn’t allow this to go on until you do have major problems. Walk away from him and let an adult handle it. Let him know that his behavior is unacceptable but be at a safe distance. His anger needs to be diffused. Psychologists and psychiatrists and the anger management will help if he wants to be helped. If it gets much worse, he may have to be removed from the home to protect the rest of you. Is he raging or laughing when he does these things to you? Help him even if you must tell a parent. It is a kind thing to do. Stay safe.
Lol, sorry about laughing but that “pushed me off the sofa” part got me. Tell your mom he needs to take anger management classes. Is he younger than you? Because if he is, he might be bullying people at school also.