http://mystressrelief.net/boyfriends-too-stressed-for-sex-what-can-i-do-to-help/ Stress Management for a Stress Free Life Fri, 15 Apr 2011 05:21:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 http://mystressrelief.net/boyfriends-too-stressed-for-sex-what-can-i-do-to-help/comment-page-1/#comment-177 jenna Sat, 27 Jun 2009 00:47:14 +0000 http://mystressrelief.net/boyfriends-too-stressed-for-sex-what-can-i-do-to-help/#comment-177 In other words....stop pressuring him about reducing his stress and having more sex, he coping the best he can right now, and he doesn't need the added pressure from you... In other words….stop pressuring him about reducing his stress and having more sex, he coping the best he can right now, and he doesn’t need the added pressure from you…

]]> http://mystressrelief.net/boyfriends-too-stressed-for-sex-what-can-i-do-to-help/comment-page-1/#comment-176 jenna Sat, 27 Jun 2009 00:44:45 +0000 http://mystressrelief.net/boyfriends-too-stressed-for-sex-what-can-i-do-to-help/#comment-176 I know this is not good for you, but honestly, your boyfriend has very legitimate reasons to feel stressed, it is normal to feel stressed when undergoing such stressful times in life, and normal for libido to go down. It seems you are more focused on having sex whereas his focus is on other things right now. Anything you could do to ameliorate the specific situations that stress him out would be a nice thing for you to do as a supportive girlfriend, but do it for his sake, not just so you can have more sex - unless your focus shifts more to himself than to yourself, nothing you do is going to reduce his stress. I know this is not good for you, but honestly, your boyfriend has very legitimate reasons to feel stressed, it is normal to feel stressed when undergoing such stressful times in life, and normal for libido to go down. It seems you are more focused on having sex whereas his focus is on other things right now. Anything you could do to ameliorate the specific situations that stress him out would be a nice thing for you to do as a supportive girlfriend, but do it for his sake, not just so you can have more sex – unless your focus shifts more to himself than to yourself, nothing you do is going to reduce his stress.

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