My abusive BF and I broke up. He had PLENTY of chances to get help and work things out with me and he never did, but has been telling me for the past 10 months that he loves me and can’t live without me. Words and no actions. I get emails, crying phone calls etc. But he won’t go to anger management or any kind of therapy. And he drinks too much. I left….the stress was too much.
I went to collect someof my things from the house today. He was at work. While I was there packing, an ex girlfriend of his called twice. He has call display and I knew her name. 10 minutes later she pulled up infront of the house, walked by my car,looked in it for awhile and then came to the door and knocked for about 5 minutes. I didnt answer. What for?
My question is……what the f*&^?
She knew he wasn’t home….his car wasnt there but mine was?
Is he trying to get a rise out of me or is she?
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Am I Being Messed With?16 comments to Am I Being Messed With? |
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Ok first off, dont answer the phone calls..only gives him hope but im sure u know that..just…end all contact with him in general..2nd..shes just trying to intimidate you…let it go….if u dont want him..and u apparently dont..dont worry about it..just..act like you feel..like u dont want either of them in ur life and they will move on….”happily ever after”
He was trying to bust you, since he could’t leave his work.
Wow!! I think you are being messed with, and if I was you I would never go back to him. He sounds abusive.
why does it matter you dont want him.
yeah
Um… did you really just start out saying ‘abusive boyfriend’ why are you worrying about him if he’s abusive??? Forget about him and her! Seriously let them live in their own little crazy world and stay away from all that drama!!!! He’s not going to stop acting the way he does, he’d need lots of work on himself, and he doesn’t want to do that. Plus even if he got help you two couldn’t be together because he will never respect you because you let him abuse you in the first place and it will be too hard for him to not do it to you again. Sorry, but it’s true! You’re better off with out him anyways though! And remember next time to say ‘peace’ long b4 an abusive PATTERN can develop.
forget about it. move on. don’t even spend any time thinking about something that’s not going to help you get anywhere.
I think u definitely r being messed with.
If ur ex was abusive, it would be a bad mistake to get back with him, because unless he goes into therapy to deal with his anger he will continue to be abusive. I’d stay right away from him.
And as for the ex girlfriend, next time she comes round, call the cops and report her for harrassment.
Get out as soon as u can, love. Those two r not worth it! Ur sanity or ur reputation.
this sound so complicated and i’m so sorry you have to go through this. now that you’ve completely gotten all of your things from his house (hopefully) just forget about him. as long as he’s not still abusing you, don’t worry about him. if worse comes to worse, block his email and get a new phone number. even if they are getting a rise out of you, don’t let him or her know because it will only fuel it more. get yourself another boyfriend so he further gets the hint that you’re not taking him back. and dont take him back under any circumstances!
Why would you care?….get all the rest of your stuff and let her have him!!! Move on and find some one who will treat you right!
Simple explanation, he is now your ex, and he is probably realizing that your tired of his abuse and well he’s not going to get you back without doing something for you to help him. Either the ex girlfriend is a “rebound” we can call it, or maybe he thinks it will get to you. I’m not sure, but don’t worry about it if your not with him, I mean honestly, you broke up with the guy because he was abusive…and I say good for you. If he wasn’t willing to get help and do you both a favor, he isn’t worth your time. Get over him and don’t pay attention to him. Because either way, its going to stress you out even more the more you think about it.
just forget the both of them, hes not worth it at ALL
This whole situation is psycho. I hope you got all of your things because you should never, ever go back. It sounds like he’s dating her again, calling you, and she’s a jealous psychotic ******. Let it go, he’s an alcoholic abusive who will try to get under your sympathy nerves to get you back. Don’t fall for it. He has no intention of getting help. Let him have a life with his crazy ex while you move on to better things.
Good luck
maybe she thought your car was his and so she htought he ws home and just not coming to the door (hence all the knocking)
I think she got a rise outa him. If you know what I mean. She was probably waiting for him. Or waiting for you to piss you off. Don’t worry about it. Move on abusive relationships are ****.
dont worry about it….. youre out of that relationship. Take care of yourself and dont worry about them.