Do I Have A Say In My Boyfriends Prison Sentence-since I Am The Victim!?

Posted by admin | Stress Management | Monday 8 February 2010 10:19 am

Please only answer if you have a serious idea on the topic at hand, thanks! ;)
Breif history: I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now, were engaged. Unfortunatly (for both of us) he is bipolar, and has mood swings, which here lately have been quite extreme. For example he got mad at me, and actually hurt me (by twisting me neck, etc.) So I called the cops, and he was arrested. (Keep in mind when I first met my boyfriend (Chad) I had no idea he was bipolar as he showed no signs that I picked up on) He didn’t show me this side till down the road and when I saw it I was shocked/scared, etc. Your probley wandering why I stayed with him, after he hurt me the first time? I told myself it wouldn’t happen again, and when I’m with Chad I usually feel really happy, and so in love! He is a great guy and I do love him! When he has these mood swings though I look into his eyes and it’s like I don’t even know him and I’m seeing a different guy! I really beleive in my heart he has a really hard time controling his condition (especially since he’s currently NOT taking medication for it) Chad also has suicidal thoughts sometimes, and that scares me, because I love him. (He feels this way when things are going wrong-cars break down, no luck finding work, etc.) Keep in mind that these mood swings don’t happen EVERYDAY, they happen occasionally. Anyway this last time (he hurt me) I called the cops, and now he’s in jail and looking at 6months-2years in prison! I honestly beleive what he did to me was horrible, but beleive him going to prison will be a huge threat to his health, and very unbeneficial for both him and me!
I beleive what will really help is him going to a Mental Institute (instead of Prison), and getting the help he needs. (Getting Counceling-I’d be willing to go for support occasionally, Getting Anger Management–to learn how to deal with anger/stress, and of course get him on some medication) His Mom actually told me that I ONLY know the Chad off of mediacation. I asked if he was better on them, and she verified he was much better, and much more relaxed/calm.
Do you know if I ask the judge (or prosecuter) for his sentence to be deamed to a Mental Institute, instead of Prison he will-since I am the victim in the case?

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Can Anybody Suggest A Good No Win No Fee Solicitor For An Employment Dispute/ Constructive Dismissal?

Posted by admin | Stress Management | Monday 8 February 2010 4:23 am

Due to over 2 years of mistreatment and bullying by management I have resigned due to work related stress/ constructive dismissal. The company have failed to act on my grievance in an appropriate manner. I have received 1 hour of advice funded by community legal services. They have advised of the direction to take but as this may now lead to a civil case it could take some time and I feel unprepared for lengthly litigation. I live in cornwall but would happily use a national company if required. Any ideas would be much appreciated.

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What Is The Best Way To Get Relief In Stress ?

Posted by admin | Stress Relief | Sunday 7 February 2010 10:14 pm

Does Meditation relieve stres? you can’t avoid all stress, but you can counteract its negative effects by learning how to evoke the relaxation response, a state of deep rest that is the polar opposite of the stress response. Practising meditation regularly has been shown to reduce stress and lower blood pressure. Living a calmer life allows you to live longer and more happily, you look younger than your years, and you are much more able to cope with life’s inevitable setbacks and difficulties.
The body’s natural relaxation response is a powerful antidote to stress. Relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, visualization, progressive muscle relaxation, meditation, and yoga can help you activate this relaxation response. When practiced regularly, these activities lead to a reduction in your everyday stress levels and a boost in your feelings of joy and serenity. What’s more, they also serve a protective quality by teaching you how to stay calm and collected in the face of life’s curveballs.
Meditation has also been shown to increase alpha brainwaves. Alpha brainwaves are the type of brainwaves used in creativity and problem solving. The more you meditate the more creative you will become which could lead to both personal and professional breakthroughs.

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Hmm, What Should I Do?

Posted by admin | Stress Management | Sunday 7 February 2010 10:14 pm

I’m 21 and still living at home and I want to move out. I can’t live with any of my friends because, frankly, I can’t stand the way that they live. My job is preventing this and the only way I can get a new job is to get my car fixed as there is no place on the bus line that is close enough to walk home from if I miss the last bus of the night and my current non-diploma, high school failure, not drop out, status is currently preventing me from getting any of the better jobs that are on the bus line. I work in a McDonald’s that is only a 30 minute walk from home. If I go into management at my work, I should make enough to get my car fixed, which in turn will allow me to get a new job. The only problem is, I’ve been working at a McDonald’s for the past 5 years and have never had any direct interaction with the customers, I work in the back, “flippin’ burgers,” if you will. The stress in the back is bad enough, but I’ve seen what being a manager at that McDonald’s does to a person. So, I have two question: should I go into management, until I get my GED, to get my car fixed? If I do choose to go into management, how would I mentally prepare myself for the stress that is to come?
If there is any confusing parts of this, I apologize, I went through and added stuff that I forgot to include into places where I thought seemed appropriate.
Thank you for your help, any answers relative to my questions will be greatly appreciated.

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Taking Over A Job Position While…?

Posted by admin | Stress Management | Sunday 7 February 2010 4:14 am

I just started a new job position in my store and the older woman that I am going to be replacing does not want to leave this position. She is becoming very bitter, resentful, and angry, and not making it very easy for me when I finally take over. She has in fact already been indirectly undermining the position which will make it harder when I start with out her.
I have been nothing but respectful, courtious, and nice to her. But at times I bite my tongue when I have to listen to her derogatory comments.
How on earth do I handle this situation to not make it any worse, then I am sure she is already trying to do?
She did not want to leave this position, management is taking her out of this position because she is not doing her job due to health issues, stress, and not enough knowledge of the pc programs.

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(from A Magazine Cover) What Is Carrie Underwood’s Stress Relief Secret?

Posted by admin | Stress Relief | Saturday 6 February 2010 10:13 pm

I’m sure being on the cover of at least 3 magazines a month helps.

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Job Interview – Should I Be Honest?

Posted by admin | Stress Management | Saturday 6 February 2010 10:13 pm

I have a job interview with a bank tomorrow. I’ve been working nightshift in a supermarket and feel Ive been the victim of bullying by management. Hence, why Ive been signed off with stress for the past 3 weeks. Should I be honest with the bank or should I maybe put the absence down to a bad back due to the physical nature of the job? A friend told me not to mention stress/depression as it doesnt look good. Bearing in mind, I’m pretty sure that my current employer cannot divulge the reasons surrounding my absence to the bank in a reference, but only the number of sick days.

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Is My Translation Into English Stylistically Correct?should In Change Any Words? Thanks A Lot?

Posted by admin | Stress Management | Saturday 6 February 2010 4:15 pm

Each construction requires scraping through a difficult investment process both at the time of designing, approval, implementation and commissioning of buildings under development. The whole process absorbs your attention and valuable time, exposing you to unnecessary stress and irritation at the same time. In order to relieve the Investors, we offer comprehensive help in implementing the project in Poland consisting in:
-acquiring land for building in accordance with expectations,
-designing fundamental maps for the acquired land,
-obtaining technical conditions for connection to utilities
-gaining decision on land development and management conditions or entry and extract of the local zoning plan,
-performing, if necessary, a procedure concerning environmental protection,
-working out a technical design,
-help in choosing a typical design and its adaptation to your need,
-obtaining a building permit,

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I Have A 6year Old Child That Has Adhd What Should I Do. I M So Stressed.?

Posted by admin | Stress Management | Saturday 6 February 2010 10:21 am

my little boy is 6 years old and has adhd i dont like the way his meds make him act. we have tryed adderal, focalin, metadate, and now daytrana it helps for a few weeks and then seems not to affect him any more. is there anything other than meds that i can try. random people have told me that all he needs is an old fashion beating but really whats that going to accomplish other than child abuse. i have started him in behavior management classes but we have only had one appointment so far so i dont quite know if its helping yet. please if anyone can help, i am soooo stressed out. i have 2 other children and one on the way.their ages are 6,4,and the baby is 14 months

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Please Someone Help! These Sentences Look Perfectly Fine To Me!!?

Posted by admin | Stress Management | Saturday 6 February 2010 4:14 am

I have to make the subjects and verbs agree but they all look correct to me.
(1) Statistics from recent research suggests that humor in the workplace relieves job-related stress. (2) Reduced stress in the workplace in turn reduce illness and absenteeism. (3) It can also ease friction within an employee group, which then work together more productively. (4) Weinstein Associates is a consulting firm that hold workshops designed to make business people laugh. (5) In sessions held by one consultant, each of the participants practice making others laugh. (6) “Isn’t there enough laughs within you to spread the wealth?” the consultant asks the students.(7) She quotes Casey Stengal’s rule that the best way to keep your management job is to seperate the underlings who hate you from the ones who have not decided how they feel. (8) Such selfdeprecating comments in public is uncommon among business mangers, the consultant says.

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